French Expression: Se faire poser un lapin

Summary

A relatable French way to say "to get stood up" — literally about having a rabbit placed on you! This expression perfectly captures that disappointing moment when someone doesn't show up, and it's ideal for intermediate learners who want to express frustration naturally.

Se faire poser un lapin

Extract / Intro Description

If you hear someone in France complaining that they "got a rabbit placed on them," don't worry about animal cruelty — they've simply been stood up. This popular expression captures one of life's most annoying experiences with typical French flair, turning disappointment into something almost poetic.

Difficulty & Formality

Difficulty

45% – Intermediate

Formality

40% – Casual, quite informal

Usage Context

Daily conversation, dating stories, complaints

Meaning

Literal translation:

To have a rabbit placed on oneself

Real meaning:

To get stood up / to be left waiting by someone who doesn't show up

This expression perfectly captures the feeling of being left alone, waiting for someone who never arrives — like being left with just a rabbit for company.

Example

French:

J'ai attendu deux heures au café, mais elle m'a posé un lapin.

English:

I waited two hours at the café, but she stood me up.

Origin / Fun Fact

This expression dates back to the 19th century when "poser un lapin" originally meant not paying an entertainer or performer. The "rabbit" was slang for the unpaid fee. Over time, it evolved to mean simply not showing up to any appointment, especially romantic ones. The rabbit became a symbol of broken promises!

Variations Based on Formality

Phrase
Meaning
Formality Level

Elle m'a planté

She ditched me

Very informal / modern slang

Il m'a posé un lapin

He stood me up

Casual / common use

Il ne s'est pas présenté

He didn't show up

Semi-formal / polite

Your Turn

Have you ever been stood up in an embarrassing situation? Or maybe you know someone who's a serial "rabbit placer"?

Share your dating disaster stories in the comments below — we've all been there!

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