Summary
A relatable French way to say "to get stood up" — literally about having a rabbit placed on you! This expression perfectly captures that disappointing moment when someone doesn't show up, and it's ideal for intermediate learners who want to express frustration naturally.
Se faire poser un lapin
Extract / Intro Description
If you hear someone in France complaining that they "got a rabbit placed on them," don't worry about animal cruelty — they've simply been stood up. This popular expression captures one of life's most annoying experiences with typical French flair, turning disappointment into something almost poetic.
Difficulty & Formality
45% – Intermediate
40% – Casual, quite informal
Daily conversation, dating stories, complaints
Meaning
Literal translation:
To have a rabbit placed on oneself
Real meaning:
To get stood up / to be left waiting by someone who doesn't show up
This expression perfectly captures the feeling of being left alone, waiting for someone who never arrives — like being left with just a rabbit for company.
Example
J'ai attendu deux heures au café, mais elle m'a posé un lapin.
I waited two hours at the café, but she stood me up.
Origin / Fun Fact
This expression dates back to the 19th century when "poser un lapin" originally meant not paying an entertainer or performer. The "rabbit" was slang for the unpaid fee. Over time, it evolved to mean simply not showing up to any appointment, especially romantic ones. The rabbit became a symbol of broken promises!
Variations Based on Formality
Phrase
Meaning
Formality Level
Elle m'a planté
She ditched me
Il m'a posé un lapin
He stood me up
Il ne s'est pas présenté
He didn't show up
Your Turn
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